I’m kind of caught in the middle of a fight between two friends. I quite like both of them, but they are constantly talking about each other behind their backs then acting as though nothing is going on when they’re with each other. They both trust me with everything and it’s slightly overwhelming. Neither of them are particularly in the right. But, then again, I’m not super close to either; it just feels awkward. Should I just let it play out? Intervene? Distance myself?

I’m kind of caught in the middle of a fight between two friends. I quite like both of them, but they are constantly talking about each other behind their backs then acting as though nothing is going on when they’re with each other. They both trust me with everything and it’s slightly overwhelming. Neither of them are particularly in the right. But, then again, I’m not super close to either; it just feels awkward. Should I just let it play out? Intervene? Distance myself?

Navigating difficult scenarios

Hiya 🤗 It can be tough when you're caught in the middle of a friend fight. It's important to remember that you're not responsible for their actions or feelings. However, if it's affecting your own well-being, it might be a good idea to set some boundaries. You can let them know that you care about both of them, but you don't want to be involved in their drama. It's okay to take a step back and focus on your own friendships and interests. Remember, you deserve to be in a positive and drama-free environment. Take care of yourself!💖

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