How can I tell if my friends don’t like me?

Hey - sorry to hear you're thinking this, it's never a nice feeling and luna is here for you 💛

Some signs that someone might not like you are:

• avoidance
• lack of effort in a conversation
• any form of nastiness or hostility (this is not okay, so if someone is being mean to you please speak to a trusted adult about it💡)

Feeling insecure about friendships is something many people experience, so you're definitely not alone if you're worrying about this – here are a few tips that might help you feel more secure in your friendships:

🗣 Communicate openly: talk to your friends about how you're feeling – they might not even realise that you're feeling this way, and a simple conversation can clear up any misunderstandings and hopefully offer you some reassurance 💬

👯‍♀️ Spend quality time together: make an effort to hang out and do things you all enjoy – building positive memories can strengthen your bond and help you feel more secure 🤝

💛 Focus on positive interactions: pay attention to the times your friends are kind, supportive, and fun to be around – these moments are good indicators that they value your friendship 🌟

💭 Challenge negative thoughts: it's easy to let insecurities take over, but try to challenge those negative thoughts – if there's no evidence to suggest otherwise, trust that your friends value you 💕

Please know that you deserve so much more than this feeling - if someone is making it seem like they don't like you, let them go and find someone who will 🙌🏽

And if you find that your insecurities are really taking over, it might be helpful to talk to a trusted adult or a school counsellor. They can provide additional support and guidance ✨

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