Are periods genetic?

Will your daughter’s match yours?

Quick summary

• The age a teen starts their period is partly influenced by genetics, but factors like health, weight, and even stress play a big role too
• How heavy, light, or painful a period is depends more on your teen’s own body and lifestyle than on family patterns
• Every period is unique, so it’s completely normal if your teen’s experience doesn’t mirror yours or anyone else’s in the family

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It’s completely natural for parents to wonder whether their teen’s period will look anything like theirs.

Maybe you started early, maybe you were always more irregular, maybe your cramps were intense, and now your teen is asking, “will mine be the same?”

And in some ways, it can be helpful if they are! It means, if you are a mother, that you have experience managing a particular kind of period and so have life experience to support them with.

So, will they be the same? And if so, in what ways?

Will your teen start their period at the same age you did?

The age someone gets their first period (menarche) is partly influenced by genetics, so family patterns can give a rough idea, but they’re never exact.

A few things to keep in mind:

• If you or your teen's older sibling started particularly early or later than average, your teen might follow a similar trend
• But weight, stress, nutrition, and overall health play a big role in shifting timing earlier or later
• Most teens start their period between the ages 8 and 17, with the average around 12

So even if your teen starts years earlier or later than you did? Still perfectly normal. Sometimes, you just need to wait and see!

Will your teen’s periods be similar to yours?

This is much harder to predict.

How heavy, light, crampy, or regular a period is tends to depend more on your teen’s own body than on family history.

Factors such as hormones, stress, exercise levels, and underlying health conditions, such as PCOS, can all influence what their cycle feels like.

No two cycles are exactly the same, even within the same family. Your teen’s period might be earlier, later, heavier, lighter, or more painful than yours. 

Ultimately, everyone’s different

Bodies are unique, and that includes menstrual cycles!

Your own experience can still be incredibly reassuring to your teen, especially if they’re feeling curious or uncertain about what’s happening to their body.

Talking about your teen’s first period with them can help them feel comfortable asking questions and learning more. 

And if you want a safe, supportive place for your teen to track their symptoms and learn about periods, the luna app can help.

They can explore teen-friendly guides, understand their own cycle, and get reliable information whenever questions come up that they may worry about asking you.

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