Hi!, I new club has started at my school, it’s a debate and law club which I’m really interested in and I want to go but I’m really scared because my friends aren’t the most brightest and wouldn’t go with me and I don’t want to go alone! Plus a boy who I dated would also be there so it’s already awkward and what if no one shows up!? But I probably overthinking it so I just need some help 😅
Hey! Walking into a new club alone can feel like the hardest part ✨
Still, this is a chance to explore something you’re genuinely interested in and meet people who are into it too.
Even if your friends don’t want to join, you could give the club a shot by yourself and see how it goes.
You might be surprised by how many friendly faces are there 🫶
If the person you dated turns up, you could just be polite and friendly.
It doesn’t have to become a big awkward moment, and the club activities will probably keep everyone busy anyway.
If going in alone feels too scary, you could ask the teacher running the club for support or an introduction to the other members.
You might end up loving it, and you deserve to follow your own interests even when your friends don’t share them.
Hope it goes brilliantly 🌷
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