how do i know if i like girls or guys ?
Heya, working out who you’re drawn to can take a bit of noticing 💫
Think about whether you feel differently around certain girls or guys compared with friends.
👉 Do you want to spend more time alone with them?
👉 Do you think about them a lot when they’re not around?
👉 Do your feelings seem similar for girls and guys, or different?
You could also talk things through with a close friend or a parent or trusted adult if that feels helpful 💛
Sexuality can be fluid, so your feelings may change as you grow and meet new people.
There’s no rush to know for sure or choose a label unless you want to.
Take your time, and just ask luna if you want to talk more 🦋
How we answered this question:
luna's team of experts comprises GPs, Dermatologists, Safeguarding Leads and Junior Doctors as well as Medical Students with specialised interests in paediatric care, mental health and gynaecology. Questions are answered and reviewed by this team.
Sources:
The Proud Trust "Exploring sexual orientation"
https://www.theproudtrust.org/young-people/exploring-identity/sexual-orientation-lgb/NHS "Sexual orientation"
https://what0-18.nhs.uk/health-for-young-people/lgbt/sexualitysexual-orientationKidsHealth "Sexual orientation"
https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/sexual-orientation.html
