hey lunaa basically this summer i was so hyped that it was gonna be so good but the thing is the holiday and my prom i was excited for are now over and i have no money to do anything and i always feel like my parents are disappointed with how much i’m at home idk what to do because i’ve always had this issue and i just feel like they think i’m friendless
Heya, there are two things tangled up here: the empty summer days and the worry about what your family thinks 💛
Being at home a lot doesn't automatically mean you're friendless, and it doesn't prove your family is disappointed in you.
Sometimes doubts about yourself can make it feel like other people are judging you, especially when there's pressure to look busy and surrounded by friends all the time.
You could tell your family that you're worried they see you this way, explain how you've been feeling, and be open to what they say too.
That conversation might help you understand each other and build a more open relationship 🫶
For the days that feel empty, you could pick one free thing that suits your mood:
👉 You could go for a walk, listen to a podcast or make a playlist.
👉 You could borrow a book, try a free online tutorial or learn to cook something with what you've got.
👉 You could reorganise your space, write, draw, edit photos or make an inspiration board.
Time alone is something everyone has sometimes, and you don't need to turn the rest of summer into a huge transformation.
If this is leaving you feeling really isolated, you could speak to a health professional for more personal support.
Take care of yourself 🌸
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